Fr. Harry Monaco, OFM, 48 years of age, a professed Franciscan friar for nine years and a priest for two years, died on Monday, December 5 at Holy Name College in Silver Spring, MD, after a long struggle with cancer.
Fr. Monaco was born October 14, 1963, in Saratoga Springs, NY, to Harry and Angela (DeVito) Monaco. He graduated from St. Bonaventure University in St. Bonaventure, NY, in 1985, earning a B.A. in History. In 1986, he entered the formation program of the Order of Friars Minor, Holy Name Province; following his postulancy and novitiate year, he completed three years of education at the Washington Theological Union, Washington, DC, and a one-year internship in campus ministry at Siena College in Loudonville, NY, before leaving the Order in 1992.
For the next ten years, he lived in Boston, Mass., and was employed as a social worker at Victory Programs there; he obtained a master’s degree in Social Work from Boston College.
In 2002, he again was drawn to religious life and entered St. Joseph’s Monastery, a Trappist community in Spencer, Mass. At the end of a two-year period there, he re-joined the Franciscan friars, and was received into the novitiate in 2004, professed his first vows in 2005, and completed his studies at the Washington Theological Union. After professing final vows and ordination to the diaconate in 2008, he was assigned to St. Bonaventure University. He was ordained to the priesthood on May 16, 2009, in New York City. Fr. Monaco completed an M.A. degree in Franciscan Studies at St. Bonaventure University, in 2009, where he taught in the Theology Department, was a faculty advisor and pianist/organist; and was active at Mt. Irenaeus, a mountain retreat affiliated with St. Bonaventure. In the fall of 2010, he enrolled in the doctoral program at The Catholic University of America, living at Holy Name College in Silver Spring, Md., but was forced to discontinue his studies earlier this year because of illness.
Fr. Monaco is survived by his parents, Harry and Angela Monaco, his brother and his wife, Vincent and Nancy Monaco, his sister and her husband, Patricia and Hector Gonzales, all of Ballston Spa, nieces and nephews, Vincent Gonzales, Amelia Gonzales, Stephanie Monaco Hotaling (Sean) and Dominic Monaco. He is also survived by many aunts, uncles and cousins.
Relatives and friends may call from 2-4 and 7-9pm Friday, December 9 at Armer Funeral Home, Inc, 39 East High Street, Ballston Spa. A wake service will be held at 8pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11am, Saturday, December 10 at St. Mary’s Church, 167 Milton Avenue, Ballston Spa. Provincial Minister John O’Connor, OFM, will be principal celebrant and Fr. Michael Blastic, OFM, will preach the homily. A prayer service will be held at 1pm, Monday, December 12 in the St Bonaventure University Chapel. Burial will follow at St. Bonaventure Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be made to The Franciscans – St. Anthony’s Guild, 4 Jersey Street, East Rutherford, NJ 07073-1012 or the Fr. Harry Monaco Scholarship, St Bonaventure University, PO Box 2500, St Bonaventure, NY 14778.